A little planning can be ok but if you overdo it you can ruin everything. Too much star-gazing, when you measuring your man by your dreams is innocuous.
For example: If he does not a react the same way in a situation you'd expect - he does not call an hour after the first rendezvous or anything like that - you will be upset, or even mad. It is absolutely wrong. Why? Because you are not angry about his behavior, you are angry because he broke you illusion - because you have planned it all. If he postpones a rendezvous, a dinner or any other program that is not the only problem that you cannot see him that night. You have already planned the entire course of the evening you have decided what dress you put, the mood, your make-up and everything else is carefully planned. In your view this is not a dating failed, but your niggling vision, the dreamed picture of what you have built.
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