I would like to remember that: Oh it was good!

At the early-stage of the relationship it does not make much sense to concern about your future. What happens if he just want you to get laid ... What if your relationship lasts only for a few weeks ... and similar considerations can kill the magic of the moment. You just met him in a chat room at a popular dating site. You get most of the information about him from his profile. You don’t know him. What do you expect from him? You had sex on the first rendezvous… so what? If you're single there is nothing you should repent. Hopefully you had a nice night, and it is no more. It's the way of the world.  All adventures cannot become love ... and don’t forget the course of true love never did run smooth. If you relationship does not last longer ... enjoy it ... If you are thinking how long it will take, you cannot enjoy the moments you share and maybe blow it all up.

  If a date or a relationship is short lived it can only be bad?

   All a matter of opinion! You can see the good and the bad things in a situation. I would like to remember that oh it was so good that night, or how much good was that two months with him!